With violent tendencies, this issue is related to only Aries in the mercury/sun in Taurus.
As you know, I have left a comment on Thread with my Natal chart about the problems in your family. Due to your derogatory statements related to violence, I will not comment on that thread again. So what was seen in your Natal chart about my (nuclear) family, tell me briefly here:
Your mother: 16sc = Mars on Scorpio 17 (a mother, father of her own child)
Your father: Saturn on 19ar = Aries 20 (A young girl feeding birds in winter)
You: 03sg = Pluto on Sagittarius 4
Now for your mother’s Natal Chart:
Sun = 6ta19 = Taurus 7 (A woman from Samaria). This is a look. In the context of both Jesus, Samaritan meets women in the sense of wells and “good samari”.
12AR37 = Mercury on Aries 13 (an unexplained bomb). I call it a “Heart Locker” symbol because the film was made around this symbol.
13vi53 = Virgo 14 (A Family Tree) On Pluto
Uranus on 10VI54 = Virtue 11 (A boy was molded by his mother’s aspirations))
Shani = 14pi12 = Pisces 15 (An officer is preparing to drill his men).
MC = 13ta01 but a few seconds ago gives 12ta59 = Taurus 13 (a man handling goods)
I could write a book as to what all these symbols say. You are in a difficult place and perhaps professional assistance is required to deal with it. I pray that you find a will and a way.