For me, personally, I modeled my behavior after my mother and grandmother. Growing up, I felt that they were perfect. He did everything for everyone and never made things about himself. I chose to mimic the behavior of the two people with whom I felt the safest, took advantage of the until the later, until in life, and the sad they felt both deeply. If you look back, then my understanding to escape was ignored by looking at their needs, so that their plight of everything is to continue for everyone else.
