As far as you go to delimitation, I agree. With the sydnote that somehow the relationship seems to be one of emotions, emotions because it is visible in the Sun and Moon aspects. Strong-Eish Moon, Weak-Ish Sun, Moon on the tail of its 5th house, so perhaps bend towards step before a relationship, dating, romance, fun things.
However the reception is not with them but with the main ambitions.
You can both feel the same mind, aspect and reception ‘separate’, then align with reality?
This ‘reality’ picture is like 2 people, who live in 2 countries apart from each other. Will it then be a distance relationship or is one of you traveling, then eventually moving forward?
It can also fuel the ‘doubt’ shown with both people in itself.
The idea is that jumping into a relationship from zero is leaving the move of dating, funny things, romance.
His ‘mind’ seems to agree with the idea of dating; Seeing the aspect of the sun for Mars, his 5th house ruler. Both have some weakness. Surya Peregreen, Mangal in Fall.
Maybe those weaknesses will happen with the disintegration of Jupiter you mentioned? There may be a decrease in doubts you mentioned, you may indicate communication passing through seventh to 12th internet. He probably shares some doubts, coming as shy or back.
You don’t even put it, but also keeping real is a less happy view idea, it may be that he is dating someone, not told you about it and he is not very happy about his dating.
It is difficult/impossible (?) Also tell whether this Mars is in its first house or you are someone else.
I think it is getting regressed a few minutes before adding all the mercury (your 5th ruler and ruling relationships in general) with all the mercury (their ambitious). Both options fit that idea. They will work at some point in the future, the moon, the sun is sexy.
So maybe just ask? In a way or another means, a simply asks a blunt or brings the subject of dating on the table, someone goes with small signs and openings. There is a strong 3 house activity, pointing to communication, being important, exiting the suspected 6th house by showing strength (Leo intercepted, 3 can also say Sun in 3)
If you like this man very much, I believe you that you do, I hope it will turn into something great for both of you!
